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THIS IS HOW YOU GET OVER AN AVOIDANT

THIS IS HOW YOU GET OVER AN AVOIDANT

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THIS IS HOW YOU MOVE ON FROM YOUR AVOIDANT EX.

A breakup with an avoidant partner isn’t like other breakups. One moment they’re loving, the next you’re left with nothing. No closure, no explanation, just questions. It’s hard to move on because you keep clinging to their potential, even though deep down you know you deserve more than the version of them you got.

WHAT THIS GUIDE WILL DO FOR YOU:
This guide will help you get out of your head and back into your life. You'll learn to give the relationship a place that doesn't control you anymore. You'll wake up without that heavy ache in your chest, trust your gut again, and eventually feel excited about a love that feels healthy & safe.

ONCE YOU'VE COMPLETED THIS 165-PAGE GUIDE, YOU'LL:

  • You’ll understand why your avoidant ex pulled away so you can stop obsessing over the mixed signals.
  • You’ll handle no contact without breaking and quiet the urge to reach out.
  • You’ll learn how to create closure, so you can make peace with the ending.
  • You’ll use practical techniques to ease the grief, so getting through the day no longer feels impossible.
  • You’ll recognize your own attachment patterns and start breaking unhealthy relationship cycles.
  • You’ll rebuild trust in yourself and feel ready for love that’s safe, mutual, and real.

WHAT YOU'LL ALSO GET
+ Written by a coach who’s been through it and helped 500+ others heal
+ Stories from others who’ve also been hurt by an avoidant partner
+ Journal prompts that help you reflect, release, and reconnect with yourself
+ Real-life exercises to break old patterns and stop repeating the past 

For less than the cost of one therapy session, gain lifetime acces to tools that help you understand, heal and move forward. You've put your life is on hold for someone who isn’t  showing up for you. Isn’t it time to start choosing yourself?

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100+ READERS HAVE DOWNLOADED THIS GUIDE - HERE'S WHAT THEY'RE SAYING

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“I was losing myself trying to decode an avoidant. This guide was the wake-up call I needed.”

– Esmee

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“After reading this guide I’m no longer waiting for my ex to come back. I can breathe again!”

– Sarah P.

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I feel calm

I felt so seen and understood reading this guide. I went through a really hard time after my relationship with my avoidant ex and honestly most people around me just didn’t get it. But this guide did. It helped me realize I’m not alone so many others are going through the same thing, and that was a huge comfort. After reading it (and doing the actions steps!), I’ve been focusing more on myself and even reconnected with friends I had neglected for a while. the overthinking is less. I’m really grateful for this

Esther Z.
THIS IS HOW YOU GET OVER AN AVOIDANT
Hopeful

As someone who was in and out of a relationship with who has an avoidant attachment style, this guide really spoke to me. Very focused on the reader and the needs of the reader. The exercises kept me busy and made me reflect on myself, the relationship and what it is I want.

Erin S.
THIS IS HOW YOU GET OVER AN AVOIDANT
Moved on!

A very practical guide. I was very hurt by my ex. Anyone who has been with an aoidant knows how difficult it is to move on. Especially since it's so hard to get closure from them. It definitely kept me on my toes and for the longest of time, I could not stop hoping and wishing for a different outcome.

This guide helped me to realize what a healthy relationship should look like and gave me the confidence to believe that such a relationship can one day be mine. I no longer wait for my ex to come back. I can breathe again!!!

Sarah P.
THIS IS HOW YOU GET OVER AN AVOIDANT
refreshing

It's pretty refreshing reading something like this, especially since most of the advice online is focused on accomodating an avoidant. This is focused on us, the ones who are actually hurt by their behavior.

Anonymous
THIS IS HOW YOU GET OVER AN AVOIDANT
Deep

This goes deeper than I expected. Didn’t think I’d end up learning this much about myself while trying to get over my ex. The exercises hit harder than I thought tbh”

Claire
THIS IS HOW YOU GET OVER AN AVOIDANT
Thank you

Thank you for writing this! I’ve been through a lot this gave me some insight. There’s a lot of exercises for each scenario. There are a lot of perspectives that go against the grain. Which I loved because this is written by someone who had the same awful experiences. I felt understood

Claire
THIS IS HOW YOU GET OVER AN AVOIDANT
Good for the price

The book covers a lot of exercises you would normally learn from a therapist. I consider this to be helpful. Especially cause you can do them in your own pace.. it’s also a little controversial because it doesn’t necessarily advice the same things you read online a lot

Anonymous
THIS IS HOW YOU GET OVER AN AVOIDANT

DID YOU KNOW?

  • Chasing someone costs you your self-respect and theirs.

  • If they avoid working on themselves, they’ll avoid working on the relationship too.

  • Helping them and ignoring yourself is how you teaching them and yourself, you don't matter.

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QUESTIONS ABOUT THE GUIDE

What is an avoidant?

An avoidant is someone who struggles with emotional closeness. They might care about you, but when things get too serious, too vulnerable or when there’s conflict or tension - they pull away.

They distance themselves because closeness feels unsafe to them. Instead of working through it, they often shut down, create distance, or act like they don't need anyone even when they do. It's not about you. It's their way of protecting themselves from feeling overwhelmed.

Is this guide for men or women?

This guide is not gender-specific. It is designed for anyone who relates to the topic and needs supports and guidance.

Is this guide a workbook or reading material?

It’s both! The guide includes both reading material and interactive exercises to help you understand what may have happened in your relationship with an avoidant, reflect on your own patterns, and gain clarity on how to move forward in a way that aligns with who you are. But it’s not just theory, there are also journaling prompts, self-reflection exercises, and practical action steps to help you process your experiences and actively create positive changes in your life. It’s designed to be interactive, so you’re not just reading but also applying what you learn.

How long does it take to go through This Is How You Get Over an Avoidant?

The guide is 165 pages long, but you don’t have to wait until the end to feel a difference. Many readers start to notice shifts in how they think and feel after just the first few chapters. You can read through it fairly quickly, but the real value comes from engaging with the self-reflection and practical exercises at your own pace.

How will I receive the guide after purchase?

After purchasing, you will receive an instant download link via email and on the confirmation page.

Can I read this on my Kindle or on Books?

While you'll receive the guide as a PDF, you can easily choose to open it by Kindle or Books.

What is your refund policy?

Since this is a digital product, all sales are final and non-refundable.

If you have any questions before purchasing, please feel free to reach out for more details to ensure this guide is the right fit for you.

Questions? Feel free to contact us here.

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Linda Walker
Helpful

I found this so helpful. Unexpectedly, it gave me more confidence in myself and it made me believe again that real mutual love is possible!

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Zara
Gift for a friend

I bought this as a gift for a friend, so obviously it's hard to give an honest review. I did notice that he's going out more and is a little less sad. Not sure if it's because of this ebook. He told me he realized that he'd been holdinghis ex to a lower standard than he should've. And he wasn't about to do it anymore.

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Shana L.
Worth it

Good for reflection and I learned new things about avoidants as well. I loved the real life experiences, made me feel like I'm not crazy. Plus very fast customer service, I couldnt find the download (it was in my junk mail) and got a response very fast.

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Georgia
Wake-up call

For years I was on and off with my avoidant. I was losing myself trying to decode an avoidant. This guide was the wake-up call I needed. It guided me to shift the focus back to me. I'm ready to start feeling like myself again.

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Esther Z.
I feel calm

I felt so seen and understood reading this guide. I went through a really hard time after my relationship with my avoidant ex and honestly most people around me just didn’t get it. But this guide did. It helped me realize I’m not alone so many others are going through the same thing, and that was a huge comfort. After reading it (and doing the actions steps!), I’ve been focusing more on myself and even reconnected with friends I had neglected for a while. the overthinking is less. I’m really grateful for this

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